First dates can feel like a high-stakes game, the setting matters just as much as the company.
To take the pressure off, we’ve rounded up Sydney’s best first date spots so you can relax, impress and enjoy yourself. First dates usually go two ways — a classic sit-down with good food and drinks, or something active to break the ice. We’ve picked venues for each so you can choose the vibe that feels right.
The Classic Sit Down Dates
Table Manners, Bronte
Table Manners is a great choice for a first date because it strikes the perfect balance between intimate and relaxed. The cosy setting feels special without being over the top, and the friendly team makes you feel instantly at ease. The food is consistently excellent, which means even if the conversation slows, you’ll still have a memorable meal to enjoy. For a dish that’s sure to impress, go for the Murray Cod with pickled carrots and sauce Jacqueline, a standout that never disappoints.
Find Table Manners at 56-60 Macpherson St, Bronte NSW 2024
Akti, Woolloomooloo
Akti is an ideal first date spot, offering a modern Greek escape right on Woolloomooloo’s Finger Wharf. With tables set by the water, you can enjoy fresh seafood straight off the grill while taking in the harbour views. It is romantic without trying too hard and the perfect mix of atmosphere and flavour. A must try dish is the Htapodi, tender octopus with black garlic, roasted eggplant and pickled chilli, a standout that makes a lasting impression.
Find Akti at 6 Cowper Wharf Roadway, Woolloomooloo NSW 2011
Love, Tilly Devine, Darlinghurst
Love, Tilly Devine is the perfect pick for a first date that’s all about conversation and connection. Tucked away in a Darlinghurst laneway, this cosy wine bar has just the right mix of charm and intimacy. With an ever-changing natural wine list and thoughtful share plates, it’s the kind of place where time slips away easily, even if it’s just over “one more glass.
Find Love, Tilly Devine at 91 Crown Ln, Darlinghurst NSW 2010
Bar Copains, Surry Hills
Bar Copains is effortlessly one of Sydney’s coolest spots for a first date. Warm, intimate and full of character, it captures that sweet spot between casual and refined, perfect for when you want to impress without trying too hard. The menu leans into simple, elegant flavours, best paired with their exceptional selection of natural wines. Whether you’re sharing plates or just a bottle and conversation, Bar Copains has the kind of easy-going charm that makes a first date feel like the start of something good.
Find Bar Copains at 67 Albion St, Surry Hills NSW 2010
Bar Conte, Surry Hills
Conte is an ideal first date spot for those who appreciate good conversation over great drinks. With more than 30 Negroni variations and an intimate, home-like setting, it strikes the perfect balance between sophistication and warmth. The share-style Italian menu and heartfelt hospitality make it easy to settle in, sip slowly, and let the evening unfold naturally.
Find Bar Conte at 340 Riley St, Surry Hills NSW 2010
Gina, Barangaroo
Gina sets the scene for a perfect first date with its Amalfi-inspired setting and harbourfront views. Italian food has a way of feeling both comforting and impressive, making it an easy choice when you want to get it right. Order the Calamarata with wild mushrooms, ricotta and hazelnuts for a dish that shows off the kitchen’s finesse and adds a touch of indulgence to the night.
Find Gina at Shop 11/33 Barangaroo Ave, Barangaroo NSW 2000
Jimmy’s Rooftop, CBD
Jimmy’s Rooftop is the kind of first date spot that feels effortlessly cool. Perched above the city, it channels the energy of a New York rooftop with Sydney sunshine and skyline views. Fresh cocktails, smoky Middle Eastern bites and a laid-back atmosphere make it perfect for golden hour drinks and easy conversation, no pressure, just good company and great views.
Find Jimmy’s Rooftop at Level 4/320 George St, Sydney NSW 2000
Want more venues like this? Be sure to check out our guide to the Best Romantic Date Night Bars and Restaurants in Sydney.
The Active Dates
KOKO Amusement, Townhall
If you and your date are the competitive type, there’s no better place to kick things off than an arcade. It’s playful, lighthearted and sparks just the right amount of rivalry. Koko Amusement delivers with endless games that make it easy to break the ice and plenty of laughs along the way, the perfect recipe for a stress free first date.
Find KOKO Amusement at 614 George St, Sydney NSW 2000
Holey Moley Golf Club, Multiple Locations
Mini golf is another perfect pick for an active first date. It keeps things playful and light while giving you plenty of time to chat and get to know each other between shots. With themed holes, a bit of friendly competition and cocktails waiting at the Caddyshack bar, it is the kind of date that feels fun without any pressure.
Find Holey Moley Golf Club at multiple locations
Ice Zoo, Mascot
Ice skating is another great option for a first date. It’s less about competition and more about sharing a calm, playful experience that naturally helps break the ice. With the weather slowly warming into summer, a session at ICE ZOO makes for a refreshing and memorable date — something a little different that still feels effortless.
